I have something to say after reading MG and 5xMom (another post) posts on the heated forwarded mail. (MG’s and 5xMom’s blog is a MUST READ! Lots of words of wisdom, humour. GO! GO!GO!)
After reading the forwarded mail, I felt angry and pity, sympathy for the victim and want to ketuk this stupid “miang” (Hokkien called HEOW) man. Most of all it makes me treasure my hubby more. However, I’m not the one that would mass distribute the mail to my email list, because I don’t see it will do any good to anybody, so what if you have seen the picture?? For me after seeing the picture, I dont give a damn to who the “slut” 狐狸精 is. Even if I bumped into her on the street, I won’t recognize her. What’s the effect ?? There is one person that I would forward the mail to. My dear hubby, as a hint… don’t you dare do this to me! Also as a sign from where I got my insecurities sometime. Of course my dear hubby would assured me… no lah…that’s just 1 in a million and I’m not the 1 in the million…:D
There’s no such thing of not being able to live without someone. Woman can make a life for themself. Stop being self pitied, and keep on lamenting with excuses. If you are willing to work, whatever megre job, you will survive, no need to rely on those asshole. When there’s a will, there’s certainly a way. Just walk out, if you feel you have to, and make a good life out for yourself and let the asshole regret later. I have this backup plan.. if I really need a job, I will go teach kindergarten or tuition… it’s a half day , flexi job and I can still spent time with my kids. Now, I need to advance myself..maybe take up a pre-school course. see..all women needs to have backup plans..no matter how trustworthy your hubby is
Trust your hubby, but trust with a opened eye. I believe women are a sensitive lots. Just a little tell tale sign, we are able to sniff it out. You cannot deny your hubby from an outing with his buddies occationally, no matter how goody goody your hubby is, there would always be bad influences. Pester, pester, pester, until he gives in and tell you all about the outings. My dear hubby is someone not good at keeping things from me. 
though he has not commited any sinful crime, but just make him tells me whatever little naughty things that he did. Control your hubby, but respect his privacy also. Nobody likes their privacy invaded. Just need to be flexible. It’s just like playing kites, you know when to let go, when to hold back. If you hold too tight, it would snapped, if you hold to loose, you lost it….
