When JS and WH were not playing well together and loving each other, they usually end up fighting with each other, snatching each other toys. Usually WH would end up to be the looser and came running crying looking for me, as if complaining to me about his sister. Sometimes I will end up with 2 crying kids. I just don’t understand why, there are so many toys at home, why do they each like the one that either one is holding. It has been laid there so long , no one touching it, but once someone started playing with it, the next will want to play with it as well. JS will claims that everything is hers. I try to be neutral and I try not to intervene and let them fence for themself until I see that whatever they do will end up hurting each other. It’s hard to play referee. I try not to side on either one. I try not to make JS feel that being the eldest, she has to always give in to her brother. When would they stop finding and learn to share?
Recently I also found JS always pinch, beat and kick WH when no one is watching. I caught her red handed a few times. Does she think that WH has threaten her position and grabbing too much attention from me?
