I dreamt…..
-Of being pregnant with my 3rd.
-Of someone that I’ve known in my secondary school days, which I’m not too close with and have lost contact for more than 10 years.
I dreamt of these 2 things so often over the past few months. I can understand the first, because JS has been mentioning about wanting a meimei so often, she even tells everybody about it. I’m quite ready for a 3rd one, just that need to time it so that baby can arrive after my exam next year, which make the age gap between WH and baby to be 3 years, PERFECT!!
2nd dream, not too sure why this SOMEONE keeps appearing in my dream. I don’t even know this SOMEONE’s whereabout and we weren’t even close, perhaps this SOMEONE can’t even recall who I am.
June 22, 2006 at 3:45 pm |
Thru my experience, it’s better to have a bigger gap for the 3rd child if you don’t have a helper at home. At least the first two can take care of themself and will at least give you a helping hand. But 3 years gap will be just nice.
June 22, 2006 at 4:24 pm |
For me, I prefer them to be closer in age gap. They can learn together, and I won’t be too old and have the energy to handle a young baby. Not more than 4 years will be ideal. By the time they grow up, I can do without my helper and also I can get back to work when all of them are in school. That’s the plan..
June 22, 2006 at 5:06 pm |
Very well said! As we get older, tend to have less stamina to keep up with the children. Looks like you have a very good plan. Salute you for still studying (I assumed since u mentioned exam).
June 23, 2006 at 9:58 am |
Yeah..just signed up a course in early childhood education. For the children and mine own benefit.