Birthday Celebration At McD

July 14, 2006

JS celebrated one of her schoolmate’s birthday at McD near school. Went to spy on her and taken some pictures.

 JS with her classmates

 

JS written this herself for her friend. I taught her how to spell.

Back home, the little boy felt left out. The sister refused to share her party bag.

The pitiful (kesian) , longing look while he sat quietly near to his sister, looking at the sister busy unwrapping the party bag. The look of wanting to be accepted. 好可怜哦! (From the pictures taken recently, I realize WH actually has got long legs. He’s small size, but his legs is skinny and long. So no need to be afraid that the will be a shorty)


One Heavenly Experience

July 14, 2006

I love spa, I love massage very much, my hubby can give me good massage, but nothing beats a spa session. It was my weekly affair ever since I started working and before I had JS.

With the kids arrival, I hardly have the time for this self indulgence. Even worst, after we moved to this small town, I tried in vain to find a sastifying massage service let alone a spa. Those I went were real dissapointing and I even got conned once by a Makcik. Less than 1/2 hour unsastifying massage ( I can’t even call that a massage), charged me RM30. Boycot this fellow.

Hubby is away, I have been naughty. I steal some time for myself. Some real “ME” time. When hubby’s around, I have no control of my time, hardly got a chance to all these indulgence. Hubby and the kids always come first, my priority. Hubby always has the say on what we doing, where we going, all his plan, his call … But when he’s not around, I have my say! I have been to the saloon, spent 3 hours there to have my hair fixed! I’m so happy with it now.

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Blogging

July 14, 2006

I wish to blog without any constraint or worries.

I wish I can write what is in my mind, my thought and feeling at the moment I feel like writing without having to edit and censor anything. I wish to just let my thoughts flow through words

I wish I can remain truthful in my writing, without having to worry whether I have revealed too much about myself.

I’m not making myself into a truman show. The joy I find in blogging is to be able to write as I like. I wish I do not have worries and cautions about blogging….but it’s HARD!!!


Childhood Games

July 14, 2006

JS’s has got a collection of erasers. The other night she was sorting out all her stationaries and the erasers were scattered on the floor. I picked up 5 of it and started to use it as a pebbles and played a game that we used to play long long time ago. I taught JS the game too and she was amused.

It crossed my mind that what games do the children play nowadays? We are in the technology era, do the kids still play all those “kampung” games?? Kids these days are either glued to the PC or TV. They bring Gameboys, Tamagochi and handphone to school, but is that all they play these day?

I remember during those good ole days, these are what we children played :

Stones/Pebbles game: Throwing and picking 5 stones with certain rules. Need at least 2 to play

Rubber band rope: Tie many rubber bands to form a long rope and one need at least 3 to play, to jump over at different height.

踢毽子 (something like a shuttlecock and you have to kick it without letting it land on the floor)

marbles: it’s usually boys game

ultraman cards: another boys game, can’t really remember how it goes.

Another silly game call AEIOU.

跳飞机: Draw boxes on the floor and hop in the box

These are the games that we usually play before school and during recess.

At home in the evening, all the children will gather outside to play “A Chi Chot” (Police catch thiefs) or “Kau Peng Peng” (Hide and seek), we play badminton (no court, the gate is good enough to be the net), skipping rope, cycling around the housing area.

I also had the experience of plucking wild fruit to eat and make drinks, playing sand, collecting tiles from construction side to decorate the sand cake, wrapping sand in leafs to make bak chang, and walking few KM away to someone’s orchard to pick rubber seed. We also play camping in discarded carton box…

When we were older, we also play other indoor boards games.

Do children nowaday still play all these games? Or they just interested in electronical stuffs and find out these uncool and old fashioned?

Nowadays beside those Malay Kampung where you can still see children running and playing outside the house in the evening, in the cities, it’s hardly seen. Parents in the cities, especially Chinese are very protective towards their children, most don’t even mingle with their neighbours or they simply do not have the time because they only come back late at night after work and stuck in the jam. Parents are worried to let their kids play outside the house, 1st, traffic has increased, more cars mean more prone to accident. 2nd, no longer safe. There are so many reported case of snatch thiefs and abduction even in front of one own house. And children in the cities are always rushing from one tuition/ extra classes to another, they have left with no time to play. They usually come home late and tired and they might not know who their neighbours are, let alone mingle around with the neighbourhood kids and play. Sad….